Your know what really grinds my gears, when you meet a ton of new people on a forum and half of them do not return two weeks later so you can't continue meeting them in your Role playing Journal which is sad because you really liked some of them like that one cook who was going to cook with you in some journal, or that engernier (still can't spell this correctly, to lazy to look it up xD ) who told you his life time story but no screw it they ain't coming back >_>. Best part yet, you have a roommate who you really like and then she dies before you could even really spend some time with her. That's what really grinds my gears.