Really, you chose to say this less than ten minutes after I was disengaging. I didnt know you could be that underhanded.
He was never a member. I dont write the story around potential new people. Fuck. You.
And you made a discussion that was private public. If you didnt know exactly what you were doing then you really are an idiot.
Frost, that really was mean of you. Private matters like that should be kept private. And really... we don't need trans characters. They do nothing to enhance a story, it is only to make the person writing them feel good. If they want to write a trans character, kindly show them the short stories forum, because people who want to do what they want can go there. Like Gem said, why should we have to accommodate just one person who thinks they deserve special treatment when rules are already there. You can have gay/lesbian characters. But this is a sci-fi fiction story, this isn't Keeping Up with the Kardashians.
Why is that your call to make? There is a time where you keep your mouth shut and opinions to yourself, reasons like this. He is not making it bigger then it is, you did something wrong.
Just learn not to do stuff like this to me. I am so, so tired of everything. I need to distance myself from this.